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LIES FROM MOLESTERS
Article was compiled and written by a Treated Sex Offender(5809265956)
The following are typical lies that Sex Offenders tell their victims: (Remember that most young children think in terms of absolutes – everything is black and white to them)
- I love you.
- You are very special to me.
- I would never hurt you.
- It is all your fault.
- You are the one responsible.
- No one will believe you.
- They will think you are making it up because you are mad at me.
- You will be punished, not me.
- Your parents will be disappointed with you because of what you have done.
- Everyone will think you’re nasty and dirty.
- It’s our secret cause no else would understand.
- You will be taken away from your family.
- Your parents will hate you.
- Your parents won’t love you anymore.
- No one will love you anymore.
- Your friends will not like you anymore.
- Everyone will make fun of you.
- This is special love.
- All (fathers/mothers/brothers/sisters/aunts/uncles etc) do this with their child.
- I’m only teaching you about sex.
- I will hurt you, your dog, your family..anything of value to the child.
- This happened to me at your age and so it’s OK.
- You are a big girl/boy now, so you should learn this from someone who loves you.
- It was an accident – I didn’t mean to touch you there – I didn’t know you were taking a bath (anyplace the child might be partially clothed or no clothes).
- I’m only tucking you in for bed.
- Who will take care of you if I go to jail.
- You will be put in a foster home.
- I won’t buy you anything else if you tell.
- Everybody will know what a bad girl/boy you are.
- There is nothing wrong with this – it’s only a game.
- I was only tickling you or wrestling with you.
- It’s OK for us to watch these sex type movies – you’re old enough now.
- You are my girlfriend and this is what boyfriends and girlfriends do to feel good.
- Your Mom & Dad said it was OK if we did this, but not to tell anyone else.
- I’m the boss and you’ll do what I say and keep your mouth shut.
- You would be responsible for destroying our family
While some of these may be hard for the "normal person" to understand – look at it from a young child’s point of view who see his religious leader as being his way of getting into heaven.
- You must be cleansed of these sinful desires.
- You should be ashamed for being so lustful.
- You are going to Hell because you get aroused by another male-that’s homosexuality-I must cleanse you of these evil ways.
- If you want better grades than you must do what I want.
- I control your future so you will do what I want, and many others along those lines.
An excellent guide for teaching your children about sexual abuse is A Very Touching Book by Jan Hindman; for teens No Is Not Enough by Caren Adams, Jennifer Fay, and Jan-Loreen Martin; for adults By Silence Betrayed by John
Crewdson.
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